I used to have standards that were based on what my family's view on the "right" guy for us. The standards were the usual ones, like going to the house for courtship and those other things just for us to be considered to be with the "right" person.
And so I've met guys, and I've come to realize that in life you'd sometimes break those standards because you found something in them. They aren't really the perfect guy that you ideally thought or wanted, but you saw something in them and made you love those things about them.
Well, it's not wrong to have standards in seeking that partner in life. It's just that I really think that everyone is wired to be beautifully imperfect. Nothing really is perfect, and that's reality that most people don't see.
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